wokuqhawula umtshato nemithetho Arab amazwe - Intercultural Meanderings

Kodwa ke, musa kuxelela abahlobo babo

Name."Uninzi Emntla Afrika boys? ukwenza fun ngamnye ezinye nge esithi oku, oko kuthetha ukuthi,"Sissy."(Ngenxa yam abafundi abavela kumazwe angaphandle, oku kuthetha ukuba,"nisolko isithethi na kubekho inkqubela.") Umntla Afrika oomama? nyusa neentombi zabo ukwenza zonke housework, kwaye boys asingawo kulindeleke ukuba uncedo ngamaxesha onke(Kwahluka kuphela kukuba kwezinye iintsapho apho kukho akukho girls, boys ndafunda ukuba uncedo.) Isizukulwana sokuqala ka-educated, Emntla Afrika abafazi uphumile kwi-sebenza umkhosi. Kodwa kukho attitudes babantu ukutshintsha. Isebenza abafazi ingaba kwakhona kulindeleke ukuba umsebenzi epheleleyo ixesha KWAYE nenze ZONKE umntwana care KWAYE zikhathalele BONKE housework. Jikelele, abantu kulindeleke ukuba umsebenzi, kwaye ukuchitha zonke kuphumla zabo ixesha relaxing. Baya? silindele ukuba kuza ekhaya kwaye ukufumana"yonke into kwenziwa kwaye ilindele kwabo."(Ambalwa kakhulu bale mihla husbands ingaba uncedo ngaphandle kokwenza dishes okanye ekuphekeni, okanye nge-jikelele housework.

Abanye nkqu qinisekisa ukuba curtains ingaba ezivaliweyo ngoko ke akukho neighbors bona nabo encedisa, noba.) Njengoko omnye young isininzi-ummi Emntla Afrika-i-american kubekho inkqubela wandixelela,"Emntla i-american inkcubeko, ABANTU zikhathalele ABAFAZI.

Kwi-Arab inkcubeko, ABAFAZI, kulindeleke ukuba zikhathalele BABANTU."Le-akhawunti ye-shocking amava i-american abafazi abo tshata Arab abantu, kuphela ukufumana nabo kulindeleke ukuba zikhathalele umntu njengoko ukuba babeza UNINA. Abaninzi intercultural couples kuba betha wokuqhawula umtshato iinkundla phezu kwaba kanye kanye lo mba, njengoko abaninzi la madoda ingaba ayikwazi adapt, nkqu xa abahlala e-Melika. Uza olu tshintsho, Arab amazwe, zingaphelanga sizukulwana, njengoko yesibini kwisizukulwana yabasetyhini ibetha kubasebenzi kwamashumi amabini anesihlanu. Andiqondi ukuba kunjalo Apha ke kungani na. Lo ngunyana wam owakhe inkumbulo, kodwa xa mna lixoxiwe nge eziliqela wobulali Emntla Afrika abafazi, bonke ekuvunyelwene ngalo kum. Islamic ilifa imithetho nika kabini ukuze boys njengoko besenza kwi-girls.

Isizathu lento ukuba abantu bamele nicinge ukuba abe financially eliphathiswe abafazi phantsi zabo care, INKUMBULO.

(Kodwa nje kuyo yonke indawo, baninzi abantu bamele irresponsible, okanye hayi decent.) Enyanisweni, abaninzi abafazi ingaba zange nako ibango labo amalungelo, ingakumbi iindawo njenge ntaba villages.

(Crawford) kubalulekile incopho lento.

Ukuba umntu ufumana decent, uya kwenza oko

Wonke umfazi uyayazi ukuba yena phantsi umntu ke koobhontsi okanye iya kuba kwixesha elizayo. Girls baphantsi, uyise wabo ke ulawulo. Abafazi ingaba? phantsi zabo umyeni ke ulawulo ezininzi Arab amazwe (ezifana kokufuna i umyeni ke imvume ukufumana okanye uhlaziye incwadana yakho yokundwendwela, nkqu kuba langaphandle umfazi, ezifana Eyiputa). Xa abafazi kuba abahlolokazi, abakho free, kodwa endaweni phantsi ulawulo oonyana babo, kwaye ngexesha inceba koonyana babo. Uthando bucala, LE YINYANISO isizathu oomama ukuyonakalisa oonyana babo ngoko ke kakhulu. Ukuba unyana ekugqibeleni oza kuba namandla phezu kwabo, kuba noxanduva ukuxhasa nabo kwi old age, ngoko ke kunjalo baya kufuneka ukuba ibe nomdla kakhulu yeemvakalelo zakho budlelwane. Kodwa ke ii-akhawunti kuba kutheni abo bafana boys ingaba wamanzi acociweyo njengoko pashas (isixa-mali varying yi-ethile lizwe, kodwa kuwo onke amazwe xa uthelekiso kunye West, apho boys and girls ingaba wamanzi acociweyo ngokulinganayo). Xa ndicela eziliqela Emntla Afrika abafazi, ukuba oko ukuba ilifa (kwaye wokuqhawula umtshato) imithetho baba itshintshe kwaye wenza kunzima ukusebenza ngokupheleleyo no phakathi amadoda nabafazi, baya kwenza ukuba abafazi kuqhubekeka ukuba siphathe abantu kwaye boys njengoko pashas. Nganye abafazi ndicela waphendula kum nge esithi,"Into oyithethayo iyinyani, kunjalo abavuma."Nangona kunjalo, ukususela abo ilifa imithetho ingaba ngokuqina kwi-Koran, akunyanzelekanga ukuba bona na utshintsho kwi ulundiname.